Feng Shui is all about balance and having imbalances in the bedroom can lead to imbalances in your life!
What do you notice about the picture above?
There's an imbalance here with a small nightstand on
one side of the bed and a large dresser on the other side.
This was the exact set up we had in our bedroom when I was married. His side had the big dresser and I had the nightstand on my side. Often, this imbalance can lead to one partner being more overbearing
and being "in charge" rather than both partners having an equal say in the relationship.
In the last email I shared the challenge with too much active energy. This is YANG energy, which is very stimulating. For bedrooms I prefer to see more YIN energy because this
makes it easier to rest and relax. Yin energy is calming and more passive - think about gentle lighting and softer fabrics.
The other challenge in our bedroom was the wall color. It was a dark red. This is Yang energy and also represents the element of fire, which is very active and can also represent in the form or anger.
We definitely like a little fire energy in the bedroom to spark romance, but having all the walls of the room painted red is way too much!